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New York Times Editors' Choice

"Beautifully written and illustrated and brilliantly argued"
Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Getting the Love You Want

"This brilliant book offers a pathway for couples to deepen connectedness"
Tara Brach, Radical Acceptance 

"The 80/80 Marriage gives couples practical tools for shifting out of keeping score"
John Gray, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

"The 80/80 Marriage gives couples a powerful way to begin feeling more connected and in love"
Lori GottliebMaybe You Should Talk to Someone

"This book will be hugely helpful to everyone except divorce lawyers. It’s filled with profound insights about reframing your relationship"
A.J. Jacobs, The Year of Living Biblically

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Nate Klemp, PhD

I'm a New York Times bestselling author,
philosopher, founding partner at Mindful, meditation junky,
and anthropologist of modern marriage.


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My company Mindful brings mindfulness training to companies throughout the world


Along with Eric Langshur, I co-authored the NYT bestselling book Start Here: Master The Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing

The 80/80 Marriage

My wife Kaley and I are writing a new book on relationships in the modern age with Penguin Random House called The 80/80 Marriage.

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